A mother of two believed she was greatly in love with his husband.
She respected and loved him because before marriage he was very affectionate and was good in showing his feelings to her through his words and acts of thoughts. When they became a married couple, her husband slowly unmasked his attitude change in the way he treated her. She noticed it gradually but still sacrificed because every time she wanted to quit, her thoughts brought her to the stage of their boyfriend-girlfriend relationship and early stage of their marriage.
Her husband hit her, hurt her and, a few times,made a hard blow on her right eye. This made her cry and reminisced again the happy memories they had. After a long time, she made a decision and ended the relationship, saving her life and her children. Doubts and jealousy are more controlled feelings and emotions. They are normally expressed with a positive note and in very encouraging tones, sometimes in jest or in light jokes.
When both partners think the same way or one says something that the other was already thinking, this is a very special demonstration of love. Conversations take place without a word being spoken, often only through knowing glances. This is an elevated kind of union, wherein couples share the same thoughts and maturity level in understanding and solving situations together. One way of expressing this is through our glances. When we glance at each other intimately, we cannot help but look between the eyes at the middle of the forehead. When we do, there is a very special feeling that goes beyond our normal experience.
This is a spiritual or soul-to-soul communication. Most couple needs to relax, watch a movie, go on a date, go out of town and venture into bonding activities what will strengthen their marital status. Everything that is considered spiritually good must be elevated. Trust, respect, and acceptance are truly complete, a condition that may need to be rekindled in our current relationships. This is the kind of relationship that has unconditional understanding, respect and acceptance.
As we get older and our aging and sick bodies cannot anymore express our love for each other through sexual intercourse, then it is only through the recognition and valuing of the inner beauty of each other that we can truly rediscover our wholeness and wellness again. Jealousy has no place in this kind of union. Jealousy is a negative fantasy , which is referred as fantasized catastrophe. It is a prolonged apprehension, suspicion, or belief that something illicit is happening or will happen in our relationship, creating unfounded fear in a very slow but consistent fashion, expressed negatively and sometimes forcefully even when nothing bad really happens.
Another reason for failed relationships is unsolicited jealousy. Mina has never fully forgotten and forgave her husband for dating another woman on the verge of her pregnancy with their eldest child. Although their eldest son is already three years old, she keeps on reminding and including that mistake every time she nags at him.
The husband never said anything and just pretended he listened to his wife every time they argued. Then one time, when they had a huge argument, Mina brought the same issue with fierce eyes and irate tone, this time she specified where she caught her husband dating this woman, this forcefully caught the attention of his husband making his face awry. The aunt his husband referred to was the one who sponsored her hospital bills after giving birth.
In essence, sex is not synonymous with love because love is a spiritual energy while sex is physical energy. You are commenting using your WordPress. You are commenting using your Google account.
See a Problem?
You are commenting using your Twitter account. You are commenting using your Facebook account. Notify me of new comments via email. Notify me of new posts via email. Search for: Search.
- The Fallen One.
- ‘Kosher Lust': Rabbi Shmuley Boteach Says 'Love Is Not The Answer'.
- After America (The Disappearance, Book 2);
- Lust, Fantasy & Sexual Thoughts by Randy Gage.
- Us and Others: Social Identities across Languages, Discourses and Cultures;
- Life Coaching For Dummies?
The Union of the Bodies This represents the physical and lowest of the four levels. The Union of the Hearts This is truly a magical experience and only comes through time and with initial but intimate bonding. The Union of the Minds Doubts and jealousy are more controlled feelings and emotions. The Union of the Spirits Everything that is considered spiritually good must be elevated. Rate this:.
- Lust, Fantasy & Sexual Thoughts by Randy Gage.
- Vocabulary & spelling success in 20 minutes a day.
- ‘Kosher Lust': Rabbi Shmuley Boteach Says 'Love Is Not The Answer' | HuffPost?
Like this: Like Loading Share with me your thoughts, my life travelling friend. Cancel reply Enter your comment here Open Preview See a Problem?
Details if other :. Thanks for telling us about the problem.
No Sex in the City: One Virgin's Confessions of Love, Lust, Dating, and Waiting by Lindsey Isham
Return to Book Page. Many books about sexual purity speak to men, but few-if any-speak to young women. Lindsey Nicole Isham boldly fills that gap with No Sex in the City , the brutally honest and often hilarious story of Lindsey's quest for sexual purity in the face of an impure culture, baffled peers, and sexual desire.
Speaking from her own experience and from years as an abstinence advocate, Many books about sexual purity speak to men, but few-if any-speak to young women. Speaking from her own experience and from years as an abstinence advocate, Lindsey treats young women like the sexual beings they are, exploring their desires and curiosities about sex while relating candid experiences and truths about sexual purity.
A great tool for Bible studies, youth groups, and abstinence organizations, No Sex in the City will help young, single, Christian women discuss their thoughts and keep their purity commitments. Get A Copy. Paperback , pages. More Details Original Title. Friend Reviews. To see what your friends thought of this book, please sign up. To ask other readers questions about No Sex in the City , please sign up. Lists with This Book. This book is not yet featured on Listopia. Community Reviews. Showing Rating details.
- A heart that’s never satisfied.
- Sex isn’t the problem, lust is [Book Review] – Across My Heart?
- ‘Kosher Lust': Rabbi Shmuley Boteach Says 'Love Is Not The Answer';
- Get A Copy.
- Motivating Your Secondary Class!
More filters. Sort order. Sep 03, Lisa rated it did not like it Shelves: sex-and-womens. Ok, all of a sudden I'm receiving my First Reads book Having said that, this book is stupid and it sucks!!!!!! She Ok, all of a sudden I'm receiving my First Reads book Her sheer obliviousness to the gaping holes in her own logic is dazzling. Still, I found myself rooting for her…to go back to therapy!
Hey, diddle diddle…? Touch her own naughty bits, rule her own domain, does she or does she not masturbate?????? Oh, and that thing I said at the top?
View 1 comment. Aug 15, Emma rated it it was amazing Shelves: first-reads. This review has been hidden because it contains spoilers. To view it, click here. Just by the title I can relate. I started student teaching, therefore, any reading for fun got pushed to the back of my to do list. I took some time to actually finish it. I really enjoyed this book for many reasons. For starters, I am 28 and a virgin. It is something that I was neither proud of nor ashamed of, Just by the title I can relate.
It is something that I was neither proud of nor ashamed of, it was just a part of me. After reading this book, it helped me realize that being a virgin is something I should be very proud. At the end, it will help my future husband wherever he may be and I become closer.
How Lust Affects Love
This books goes into great detail about Christ and God being in your life to help you through some difficult times, especially when your friends may be pressuring you to have sex. I think that even if you are not as religious as the author, it helps bring things to perspective. I love the fact that it helps women, young and old, to value themselves, both mentally and physically. Waiting until you are married to have sex is a difficult road to take alone.
That way, you never feel alone and know you can always talk to someone about whatever is on your mind.